Wednesday, November 28, 2007

332 - Mount Shasta from I-5


332 - Mount Shasta from I-5, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

George thought this one told a story. I wish I could say I purposely got the Interstate 5 sign in the picture, but it just happened to fly by while I was snapping!

Northern California is spectacularly beautiful, and Mount Shasta was particularly breathtaking this morning!

BTW, I am home! My mother is still alive but has stabilized for the time being. It was time for me to be at home with my family for a while before I go back in the near future for her homegoing. I know I made the best decision for my family and for my own mental health.

331 - Happy Travelers


331 - Happy Travelers, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

My kids are the consummate travelers. We have taken the 1,000 mile trip to Southern California and back so many times, and they always make the best of being stuck in a car for 16 1/2 hours. I am so thankful for them.

330 - Sterling


330 - Sterling, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Monday, November 26, 2007

This building was my "home away from home" for much of November. So, I had to take a picture of it for my final day here. It is a very nice retirement community with a senior residence, assisted-living facility and Alzheimer's unit. My mom is in assisted-living on the second floor.

329 - High Def Heaven


329 - High Def Heaven, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

My brother was SO excited about getting this High Def Flat Screen 50 inch T.V. screen that I told him that I would make it my picture of the day.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

328 - Lunch with Mom


328 - Lunch with Mom, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Applesauce, yogurt, soup and cranberry juice have been my mom's meal plan since I came on October 31.

Friday, November 23, 2007

327 - Morning Paper


327 - Morning Paper, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

We took a walk and saw this guy sitting outside the Starbuck's reading his morning paper. :)

Thursday, November 22, 2007

326 - Happy Thanksgiving!


325 - Happy Thanksgiving!, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

From one of my mom's many visitors. Hope everyone has a great day!

325 - Triathlon Man


325 - Triathlon Man, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

My brother went and took a swim in an OUTDOOR pool in November and learned that it wasn't heated. :) He just bought a new bike and is training for a triathlon.

324 - Praying at the Window


324 - Praying at the Window, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

This guy is at my mom's screen door almost every day.

323 - Good-Bye Old Friend


323 - Good-Bye Old Friend, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Monday, November 19, 2007

Liz came to visit my mom today. She talked of fishing and boating and water-skiing and all the fun times they had together. Liz is 86 years old and still driving, leading Bible study, and feeding the homeless in Oceanside. She is the only one of my parents' old friends left of the group of friends who moved to Fallbrook after their retirement from Rockwell International in the late 70's. It was a sweet time that concluded in a heart-warming prayer for my mom's elevation to her heavenly home.

One of my favorite things about my growing up years were my parents' great friends! Thanks Liz.

Monday, November 19, 2007

322 - Another Teenager in the House

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Paul turned thirteen! Yes, I got to celebrate it with him because my men came down to be with me in Southern CA! Aunt Holly made a HOMEMADE Bonnie Butter Cake for Paul. I told her our tradition, and she made it when she usually just uses a box or buys it from the store. Thank you Aunt Holly!

We also went out to Carl's Jr. for lunch and Red Robin for dinner where Paul got his favorite meal: Grilled Cheese Sandwich and Fries!

I am so happy to have my family with me now.

Saturday, November 17, 2007

321 - Morning Rose


321 - Morning Rose, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Sterling has extensive rose gardens. They are so beautiful in the morning light with the dew.

320 - The Barricade


320 - The Barricade, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Friday, November 16, 2007

My mom slipped out under those hospital rails on Sunday night. So, the Hospice nurse thought of this innovative way to keep her from moving out.

Thursday, November 15, 2007

319 - Sterling Living Room in the Morning


DSC_0144, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

I love how the light goes through the windows in the morning at my mom's place. This place is so beautifully decorated. The original owners were incredible interior designers and have antiques throughout the common areas.

318 - The Dawn of Another Day



318 - Another Dawn, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

I know it may seem redundant to have another sunrise picture, but these are the only pictures I have taken during the last two days because of others pressing priorities. I still never get tired of the beauty of each new day. It makes me think of Hosea 6:3:

So let us know, let us press on to know the Lord.

His going forth is as certain as the dawn . . .

So true. This is my constant in these days of seeing my mom slide toward heaven. The sunrise is a certainty even as death is a certainty for all of us.

317 - Sterling Sunrise





317 - Sterling Sunrise, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.


Tuesday, November 13, 2007

This is the view outside my mom's window every morning. Gorgeous. It sit and have my quiet time and watch the sunrise every morning over these hills in the Temecula Wine Country.

316 - Orchids


316 - Orchids, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Monday, November 12, 2007

I bought these beautiful orchids for my mom's room. I loved how the sun hit them this morning.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

315 - Aftermath of the Southern California Fires

I went to church in Fallbrook today, and Terri brought be by the fire devastation. This is the mobile home park on Reche Rd. not too far from my parents' former home. Thankfully, all in Fallbrook were evacuated safely, and there was no loss of life.

You can see more photos if you click on this picture and scroll forward and backward on my photostream. I was amazed at how it could burn a home and skip over a green lawn and move to the next home.

314 - Gifted Women


314 - Gifted Women, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Saturday, November 10, 2007

One of the disadvantages of living in Oregon is not being able to see any of the performances by my niece Hayley. She is almost seventeen and has been in numerous plays and dance performances. She sings, dances, and acts beautifully. Her next performance will be Rosalind in Shakespeare's "As You Like It." She has grown into a tall, graceful, smart, and beautiful young woman.

Her mother (my sister-in-law) is on the left. She is also a smart, warm, and wonderful woman who was a drama major in college but switched to pre-med (quite a leap, eh?). She is now a pediatric anesthesioloist.

Two very gifted women!

Hayley's Dance Performance


Hayley's Dance Performance, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

The show was not only a dance performance but also an educational odyssey through the history of women in dance. It started with Salome, who danced before King Herod and asked for the head of John the Baptist as her prize, and ended with "Material Girl" by Madonna. It was great. (My niece is the one of the left, and I am in the reflection!)

313 - Missing Home


213 - Missing Home, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Friday, November 9, 2007

My connection with my family has been my cell phone. I miss my three men!

Thursday, November 8, 2007

312 - Fused Glass Globe


312 - Fused Glass Globe, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

This is a fused glass mural in the entry of the new Temecula Public Library that opened on December 14, 2006. It was an amazing place that you can see on my flickr account if you want to see the architecture and children's section. It didn't have as many books as my library (www.thebestlibrary.com), but it was a beautiful place!

I checked out Mansfield Park by Jane Austen. I was needing a "comfy" book in these last days with mom, and Austen always feels like coming home!

Temecula Library Fused Glass Mural

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

311 - Water


311 - Water, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

310 - Podiatrist Pedicure


310 - Podiatrist Pedicure, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Mom's toes looked so uncomfortable, and the hospice aid said that there is a podiatrist in town who makes housecalls. What a nice man! I am so enjoying talking to all the wonderful professionals who come in and help make my mom's last days more comfortable.

309 - Temecula Turning


309 - Temecula Turning, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Monday, November 5, 2007

I didn't take my camera to Sterling on Monday, but this is what I saw on the way. Fall comes to late here!

One more view


DSC_0059, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

I liked this one too. :)

308 - Sterling Sunset


308 - Sterling Sunset, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Sunday, November 4, 2007

This is the view from my mom's retirement community.

Sunday, November 4, 2007

307 - Mom and Dad


307 - Mom and Dad, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Saturday, November 3, 2007

Mom and Dad
Raising our family
Mom and Dad
Look at what you've done for me
And I want you to know
That I love you so
And I'm thankful too
For the love you have for me

I respect you for who you are
And for all you have raised me to be
For you've counseled and taught me
Guided and encouraged me
To reach for the stars

But most of all you've supported me
In all I've done and all I've wanted to be
Even when you couldn't understand
Or even agree
You still said, "Go ahead.
We only want our little girl happy."

Mom and Dad
Raising our family
Mom and Dad
Look at what you've done for me
And I want you know
That I love you so
And I'm thankful too
For the love you have for me

Well, I know that it's not easy
Giving us wings in which to fly
And then watching us soar
Into an unknown sky
Where dangers may lie


Though I may be far away
Not able to be with you
Much of the time
I always know
When I get home
You'll be there with a smile
Ready to welcome me back

Mom and Dad
Raising our family
Mom and Dad
Look at what you've done for me
And I want you to know
That I love you so
And I'm thankful too
For the love you have for me

306 - Mom and Me


306 - Mom and Me, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Friday, November 2, 2007

Mom and I had much uninterrupted time together today. It was sweet.

305 - California Turning


305 - California Turning, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Fall comes later in Southern California with 75+ degree days. The leaves are just starting to turn, and there aren't as many trees that turn. I am glad I was able to see the fall in Oregon before I came here.

October Retrospective


October Retrospective, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

304 - Spiderweb Cookie Pizza


304 - Spiderweb Cookie, originally uploaded by carolfoasia.

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

I helped my sister-in-law decorate this spiderweb cookie pizza that her sister sent to her.